Hey ladies! Well, the holidays had me all wrapped up (pun intended!) with family stuff and I haven’t had a chance to update O4Her in a while. But as most of you who have been keeping up with me over the years know, I do come back - even if it takes me a couple weeks or so! I hope your holidays and New Years were fantastic! And now, moving on!

This week is an exciting week in the world of adult entertainment! There are two big trade shows going on in Vegas this week: Internext (adult internet related) and AVN (adult film related). I will be attending both, and plan on posting about it (I know, I know – I said that last year and didn’t get around to it, but I mean it this time!) So, stay tuned!

There’s new website in town, GirlzPorn, and if you’re a girl who likes (or is curious about) porn, then you should check it out! Now, I know what you’re thinking – “Yeah, SURE it’s for women. It’s probably just porn for guys and re-packaged for women. Or it’s porn for gay guys. So, what’s the catch with this one?!” Well, I assure you it’s the real McCoy, ladies! Not only do they offer porn specifically created for women, they provide sex advice, news, a blog, and an active community of like-minded porn-loving women. It launched earlier this year and is already receiving accolades and awards.

There are VERY FEW websites and porn companies out there that specifically create/promote porn FOR WOMEN. Trust me, I know, I’ve been searching the web for them for years! If you like what you see, I hope you’ll support GirlzPorn! Here’s an article about their recent XBIZ Award nomination:

If you’ve been reading my blog for any length of time, it’s likely you know I’m a fan of this super sexy porn star! He’s made my Top Male Pornstar lists for 2010 and 2011, and for good reason. He’s f’n HOT!! He’s also a super nice guy, still humble, and works hard for our enjoyment. So, imagine my delight when I found out The Black Assasin just launched his very own porn site! It’s run by Prince Yahshua, for Prince Yahshua (and his fans, of course!) and about Prince Yahshua! It’s at PrinceYahshua.com (duh!), so go check it out and support one of the hardest working male porn stars in the biz!

Here’s an article with more info about the web site launch:

Here it is, folks! My list of the top 11 (straight) male performers of porn for 2011. On, of course 11/11/11 at 11:11! Like my post last year, this is just my personal opinion, and there were many many guys I took a look at. I’m going to start out by just listing their names, but I will be going back in and adding more information on them, photos, and where you can find more of them. My research took WAY longer than I anticipated – looking at movies, looking up awards, finding websites and personal info. So, for now here’s the list (again, in alphabetical order):

1. Dale DaBone
2. Flash Brown
3. Keni Styles
4. Lexington Steele
5. Manuel Ferrara
6. Mick Blue
7. Mr. Marcus
8. Prince Yahshua
9. Scott Nails
10. Spyder Jonez
11. Xander Corvus

All of these adult performers have proven themselves to be the best at their craft, and besides I think they’re HOT! Come back soon for more info on these hotties!

OK, ladies. I’m pretty sure most of us girls have at least one or two – or a whole gaggle - of gay friends, right? (If you don’t, your missing out – just sayin’.) And I think most women (straight or bi, anyway) kinda feel like, hey, I can relate to gay guys, and we have a lot in common (for starters we both like to look at and have sex with hot guys.) Now, I’m a firm believer that no one can truly understand what it’s like to be someone we could NEVER actually be. (Read it again – it really does make sense.) But we should at least try to understand them to the best of our abilities. The problem is that this often translates into stupid (misinformed or uneducated or insensitive) questions. So, what’s a girl to do? Where does she learn this stuff without sounding stupid? Enter Zack Rosen. He’s provided us girls with not one but two articles on everything you’d ever want to know about gay guys and sex, but were afraid to ask (or maybe you did ask and got slapped in the face.) I learned a bevy of important shit, and I’m pretty sure it’s saved me from making my gay friends roll their eyes (again) behind my back. : ) So, avoid the stupid questions. Avoid the eye-rolling. Read these articles (they’re not long, and they’re not boring – heck, they’re fuckin’ hilarious!) Your gay friend(s) will thank you.

Here’s a little snippet, but I highly recommend you read both articles:

3. Think of “top” and “bottom” as positions, not identities.
This is the most confusing for people. Let’s say a girl and guy are fucking. They probably do it in a couple different positions. These positions are based on what feels good for the individual, what they know they like based on previous encounters, what they feel like doing that day and whole host of other factors. No one is going to say “That girl likes it doggie? From the way she talks and acts, I thought she was a total missionary!” It wouldn’t make sense. In the same way, most people I know figure out what role they are going to play from a whole different host of metrics. Questions like “wait, the bottom was in charge? The top is passive/shorter/Asian/anything” are based on a whole host of incorrect assumptions and should be avoided.

4. Equating bottoms with women is offensive… to women.
Just a quick note on this one: If you are trying to figure out which member of a gay relationship is “the woman” you are doing everyone a disservice. Women who get fucked do so not because they are submissive, inferior or have an innate desire to do housework. They get fucked because they want to and it feels good. This one gets tossed around more than it should. If two men are doing it, they are still both men. The connotations that penetrative sex turns someone into the stereotypical “woman” isn’t really good for anyone.

 I love you Zack! Anyway, here are the two articles (Thank you Jezebel.com!)

A Girl’s Guide To Guy-On-Guy Sex: Butt Edition

A Girl’s Guide To Guy-On-Guy Sex: Everything But The Butt

I try and keep up on what’s popular and trending in the “porn for women” arena, and mobile porn for women has been a big favorite this past year. I posted previously about Adam&Eve video on demand going mobile, as well as the Sssh.com website which provides streaming movies, photo galleries and erotic stores. Well now one of the best sex toy stores online just went mobile too! In case you didn’t already know, Adam & Eve is well-known for it’s high quality sex toys, lingerie and porn DVDs that are targeted towards women and couples. And they recently launched their mobile website that is compatible with iPhone and Android! I just checked it out on my iPhone, and I have to say it’s pretty slick! The navigation is easy, the pages load quickly, and you can get helpful information on all kinds of items from DVDs, sex toys, books and lingerie before you make a purchase. While looking at a DVD I also noticed that you can rent DVDs for like $2-$3 (like a naughty Netflix!) I’m gonna check into the rental thing and post about it later, but I at least wanted to mention it. Anyway, go check out AdamEve.com on your iPhone or Android – and happy shopping! Here’s the article I read that clued me in to this latest news:

Hey folks! I just read this article and thought it was pretty cool. Who would have imagined that The Liberator (a sex toy – well, actually it’s more like furniture) would end up lifting the spirits of soldiers in Afghanistan!

Wanted: YOUR OPINION!! (Pretty Please….)

I am once again doing research and compiling a list of the Top Male Pornstars (for 2011 this time). If you have an opinion, and think someone should be on the list, hit me up, drop me a line, send me a lettah! Or just leave a comment on this post (you can be annonymous if you like)! I’m always open to checking out fresh meat! Heh heh heh!

Stay tuned, ladies and gentlemen. I’ll be posting my “Top 11 Male Pornstars of 2011″ on (you guessed it) 11/11/11 at 11:11. Hey it worked last year for my Top 10 Male Pornstars on 10/10…you get the picture!

“Closets are for clothes, not people!”

I just want to take a moment and say to everyone that has come out as gay, lesbian, bi, transexual – GOOD FOR YOU! I am so proud of the friends I have that have come out. It’s not easy sometimes. But it’s just gotta feel so good to finally be able to BE who you really are. So, here’s to all of you that have come out – all over the world! This is YOUR day to celebrate your “outness”! Be proud of who you are!

Prince Yashua. ***dreamy sigh*** Oh, excuse me while I pull myself out of a very nice daydream….This bad ass porn star made it on my Top 10 Male Porn Stars of 2010 list, and for good reason – um, he’s fricken’ HOT! So, when I saw this article, I just had to share – mainly as an excuse to show you a picture of his amazing bod. If you don’t know of him, you’re missing out! Check out the article below if you want to know more about Prince Yashua.

You can find his movies on Gamelink.com or video on demand at HotMoviesForHer.com.