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February 11th, 2013 at 1:39 pm

Female Porn Fans…And Their Haters

OK, so my friend JTL sent me this Daily Beast article about how there actually are porn fans of the female persuasion, written by an intelligent porn star, Aurora Snow. Yay! I mean, I knew women porn fans existed but it’s always nice to see confirmation outside my little world. I was ready to just post a link and talk about how great it is that this subject is getting attention, and that maybe it will translate into more porn being made for the female market. Then I started reading the comments. Haters, haters, and more haters! Misogynistic men, judgemental women, and downright idiots and fucktards. Are you kidding me? So of course I had to post a comment. And here’s what I said:

Why so many haters? Why-oh-why can’t intelligent people have intelligent conversations about “taboo” subjects? How pathetic and sad. You think porn is gross or degrading? Then don’t watch it. Just because it’s not for you doesn’t give you the right to spew your judgement about someone you don’t even know. Simple minds believe what they are told by mainstream media – that all porn stars are broken, abused drug addicts. But guess what? There are porn stars with college degrees who speak intelligently and run their own business, and CHOOSE to do what they do. And they call all the shots in their business – how many of us can say that about OUR job? And not all porn viewers are depraved men with nothing better to do. There are women and couples who enjoy watching porn. Because it’s fun and entertaining. Get over it. Not everyone fits into your limited stereotypical view of the world. We all have our own opinion. The mark of intelligence is the ability to debate something with (duh!) intelligence! I’d love to hear from people that don’t like porn – if they could put some coherent sentences together, back up their statements (if you can call them that!) and sound like they are smarter than the stereotypical porn star!!! 

It saddens and disgusts me that in this day and age there are still so many small minded people, who are in the proverbial dark ages of sexuality. It’s why I STARTED this bloody blog in the first place! To get the positive and intelligent conversations started. To let people know – especially women – that enjoying sex is OK! Let’s hope those conversations continue, here and everywhere!

P.S. If you’re interested in seeing more of Aurora Snow, you can find her movies at PornstarNetwork or AdultDVDUniverse.

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    I also find comment sections to be fascinating microcosms of anonymous hatred. Sometimes these sections can be really funny but mostly it’s people whining and opining. It’s unfortunate.

    But, yeah, porn. There’s something for everyone.

    -JTL

    Julius T. Leisure on February 11th, 2013
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    True, true. I think comment sections in any public forum tend to be microcosms of anonymous hatred. People are haters, yo. But yes also funny. And sometimes there are nuggets of helpful information, if you have a few hours to weed through all the bs. But if a ton of people all notice the same thing (good, bad or ugly), I tend to pay more attention to it. :-)

    Marie on March 6th, 2013
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