Love, sex, and soulmates

My friend and I were having a discussion today about soul-mates.  Do they exist?  How do you know?  Should we “hold out” until we’ve found ours?  What if only one person in the relationship sees his/her partner as a soul-mate?  Can you have a happy marriage if it’s not with a soul-mate?  These are all difficult questions, [...]

Thursday, May 8th, 2008

Touching, sexual vs. non-sexual

These days the whole topic of “touching” is a touchy subject (cheesy pun intended!)  Now, certainly I recognize that there is an argument for our extremism.   In this current day and age, where priests have admitted to touching minors inappropriately, sexual harassment in the workplace is a common discussion, and convicted sex crime offenders can be tracked via [...]

Thursday, May 1st, 2008

Confidence and age, in relation to sex

So, it’s been my observation that many 30 to 40-something women seem to be generally at peace with who they are by now.  They have had some experiences, gained some knowledge, and generally feel comfortable with who they have turned out to be – mentally and physically, and in particular sexually.  I find it ironic that [...]

Monday, April 28th, 2008

Faking an Orgasm

This is no doubt a subject that we’ve all discussed, or at least thought about.  But I figure I’ll weigh in on it with my two cents (woo hoo, two cliches in one sentence!)  So here goes.
 Ladies, don’t do it!  I know, I know.  It’s late, you’re tired, or you’re not comfortable expressing yourself sexually, and yet [...]

Sunday, April 27th, 2008

Sex and Earth Day!

The two may seem unrelated, but I’m here to tell you they go together like chocolate and strawberries!  Rather than re-invent the wheel, I will defer to two great resources already out there:
 1.  Treehugger.com – How to Green Your Sex Life (including info on: Sex Toys, Lube, Condoms, Sexy Giving, Green and Sexy Fun, Bamboo [...]

Tuesday, April 22nd, 2008

Sexy Shopping – sex toys, DVDs, lingere and more!

After much research, I have selected three main websites that I like for sex toys, lingerie, DVDs, etc.  Here’s the list, and I’ll give you a short explanation on why I chose them (in alphabetical order):
1.    Babeland – great selection, women-friendly, helpful reviews, buyers guides, easy navigation, informative
2.    Eden Fantasys – great selection, [...]

Saturday, April 19th, 2008

Long time couples – what turns you on?

So, I was recently talking with my friend and we were discussing how your sex life changes when you have been with someone for a “long time” (I have purposefully made this term vague because the definition of “long time” is different for everyone, but most of us reach that threshold, that point of no return, eventually.)  Mind you, I [...]

Saturday, April 12th, 2008

Infidelity: is it ever OK?

Well, every once in a while I’m going to post a topic that has a bit more depth and seriousness, so I thought I’d tackle one of the “biggies” in the sex department: infidelity. Although there may be varying opinions on the exact definition (“I did not have sex with that woman” comes to mind!), [...]

Sunday, March 16th, 2008

Guys Jacking Off

Yep, it’s an unavoidable subject, even on a site for women (uh, especially on a site for women!)  Most of us are aware that it happens.  Frequently.  Like, All. The. Time! And although the “word is out” that it’s normal, I still get the sense that most women are uneasy about this.  I know, I [...]

Monday, March 10th, 2008

The Big “O”

I’m going to assume that most of you know what I’m talking about, but just in case you live under a rock, “O” stands for orgasm.  Whether you want to have a bigger one, have more than one, have them more often, or have one for the very first time, I think this is an area [...]

Thursday, March 6th, 2008
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