Wow, I can’t believe it’s been two years since I published my very first post here on O4Her!

In celebration of this anniversary, I am going to list out my Favorite Blogs (right column) - and WHY those sites are on there. It’s not a full-blown review, but kinda a short snapshot review of each blog. Although the list has changed over these last two years, you can always count on my blogroll being a list of blogs I actually read (which is one of the reasons the list changes.) Two things that are in common with all of them is:

(1) They are sex positive
(2) They are updated regularly

I’d love to get your opinion about these blogs, so feel free to leave a comment (it can be annoymous if you’d like). You’re also welcome to give your opinion about this blog, and also some of your favorite naughty blogs. I’m always looking for new naughty material to read! Until then, enjoy!

Adult Blog Spider - A great listing of other adult/sex blogs (in case you don’t get enough from my list!)
Always Aroused Girl - A well-known sex-blogger, techie, mom, and awesome writer, been around since 2005
Blue Eyed Vixen – A mom, wife, lover, and interesting sex blogger, with stories, pics, and rants
Cleavage – Awesome writer/blogger who writes about life, sex, family, etc. Very entertaining and funny
Dr. Tim - Director of Scientific Affairs for Doc Johnson (sex toys), very informative, with personality
Hot Movies For Her - The blog for the popular Video On Demand, Porn For Women website
Janes Guide - If it’s a decent adult website, it’s probably been reviewed by Jane. And this is her blog
Moms In Babeland - The blog for the popular adult/sex toy store Babeland, lots of good info/discussions
Ms. Naughty - If you’re a woman and you like porn, this is a blog for you
Naughty Mommy Reviews - Naughty Mommy who does (naughty) reviews (duh!) & stuff. Funny/entertaining 
Pop Porn - Tongue in cheek news about the adult industry. It’s like Us or People mag but XXX
Rabbit Write - Intelligent sex journalist, sex positive and smart, great writer = awesome blog
Regina Lynn’s Sex Rev 2.0 – At the intersection of Sex and Tech, informative and entertaining 
Ryan St. Germain - Amazing photographer, often fetish-related, a great writer. Oh and a  rare smart/sexy/nice guy!
Sex And The 405 - Los Angeles. Sex. News. It’s that missing “Sex” section of your L.A. newspaper
Vagina Drum - Young, funny, honest blogger about sex, life, and whatever else crosses her mind
Violet Blue - Prominent (because she’s smart as hell, and speaks and writes that way) sex writer and educator who has her thumb on the pulse of all things adult

Whew! I could have written a paragraph about each one, because each of them are awesome in their own way, but suffice it to say that if they’re on my list, I consider them worth checking out. If you agree, or especially if you disagree – please let me know. I’m always up for a good logical debate. If you have a suggestion for a blog to add to my list, let me know. But be prepared to hear the truth from me – good, bad, or ugly.

Anyway, please enjoy these links, and here’s to 2 years of O 4 Her. I look forward to sharing my naughty side with you this next year, and who knows – maybe even another year! Or two. Or 10. My dirty mind isn’t going anywhere (except maybe to hell if you ask certain people….lol)

Hey ladies! I just wanted to get the word out about a new awesome blog out there. It’s from the folks at Babeland (awesome online adult store), and I just checked it out. Of course I loved it, so I added it to my Blogroll, but also wanted to put together a quick post about it. If you’re a Mom who believes that you can (and should) still be a sexual being, this blog’s for you!

“First sex is a dividing line: you step over it and transform from girl to woman, boy to man, child to adult. Conversion. Communion. It is called ecstasy for a reason.

Which is why virginity cannot be lost. There is no loss. There is only gain. Unfolding, knowing, more.

This, of course, is why there are so many rules about sex. Sexuality is a basis for power and agency and awe. Stepping over the divine line into the miracles of body and self makes you wonder: what else is possible? What could possibly be impossible?”

- Kelly Diels 

Perhaps it’s because it’s “that time of the month”, and I’m apt to be emotionally moved by things like commercials and sappy songs on the radio. Perhaps I’m feeling a little guilty for not writing as much as I’d like to on this blog. But I think it’s mainly because when you see something you know is good – brilliant even – you want to tell it to the world. I highly recommend get your ass over to Cleavage, and the wonderful prose of Kelly Diels. Now, you may not always agree with what she has to say (I don’t), but I love love love her passion. And I do agree with plenty (tons!) of what she has to say. And all of it makes me want to be a better blogger. A more consistent blogger. To show my passion to all. Now, isn’t that the highest goal for any relationship? To encourage others to be better? So, that’s what she’s done, even though she doesn’t know it! I hope you really do check it out. I’ve put her blog on my blogroll too, so there’s no excuse that you can’t find it. And just in case there was any question – I am not getting any sort of reciprocation on this – I just like her blog.

 OK, I’m off my soap box now. Just go check it out.

Note: I added the quote at the top after just posting this – I had meant to include it originally and in my haste to sing her praises, I forgot to put it in there!

“Sex and relationships, infused by the brain.”

I don’t have much time these days to devote to reading other blogs, but I do have my favorites (see my list of “My Favorite Blogs”), and the one I seem to always check regularly (and the one I like to contribute comments to) is Smart Girls Who Do It. Not only are the blog post subjects interesting, but the posts (and most of the comments) are always a great read. Whether witty, funny, deep, informational, entertaining, or any combination, I always find myself getting sucked in to reading everything – even when I “don’t have the time”.  It is one of very few blogs that I get excited about when I see a new post there.  Anyway, this is a personal recommendation, so go check it out!  And let me know what you think!