There’s new website in town, GirlzPorn, and if you’re a girl who likes (or is curious about) porn, then you should check it out! Now, I know what you’re thinking – “Yeah, SURE it’s for women. It’s probably just porn for guys and re-packaged for women. Or it’s porn for gay guys. So, what’s the catch with this one?!” Well, I assure you it’s the real McCoy, ladies! Not only do they offer porn specifically created for women, they provide sex advice, news, a blog, and an active community of like-minded porn-loving women. It launched earlier this year and is already receiving accolades and awards.

There are VERY FEW websites and porn companies out there that specifically create/promote porn FOR WOMEN. Trust me, I know, I’ve been searching the web for them for years! If you like what you see, I hope you’ll support GirlzPorn! Here’s an article about their recent XBIZ Award nomination:

Here it is, folks! My list of the top 11 (straight) male performers of porn for 2011. On, of course 11/11/11 at 11:11! Like my post last year, this is just my personal opinion, and there were many many guys I took a look at. I’m going to start out by just listing their names, but I will be going back in and adding more information on them, photos, and where you can find more of them. My research took WAY longer than I anticipated – looking at movies, looking up awards, finding websites and personal info. So, for now here’s the list (again, in alphabetical order):

1. Dale DaBone
2. Flash Brown
3. Keni Styles
4. Lexington Steele
5. Manuel Ferrara
6. Mick Blue
7. Mr. Marcus
8. Prince Yahshua
9. Scott Nails
10. Spyder Jonez
11. Xander Corvus

All of these adult performers have proven themselves to be the best at their craft, and besides I think they’re HOT! Come back soon for more info on these hotties!

Well, it’s not likely that a famous MMA fighter would cross over and become a porn star, but…. Wait a minute - now that I think of it, that’s not too far fetched, really. I mean, many fighters are sexy guys and I’m sure a good number of them are “playahs”, (hell, one of ‘em – Tito Ortiz - married Jenna Jameson, the ultimate pornstar! And yes, I intentionally chose the word “ultimate” as a reference to the UFC!) So these fighters probably know their way around a  pussy bedroom. Well, hey, if it does happen you can say that I was the first one to write an article about the concept anyway! But I digress (what else is new?!)

So, the crossover that IS happening is that porn star (and first time porn director!) and all around hottie Derrick Pierce opened an MMA gym in Los Angeles! Now those of you that know me, know that I love me some MMA, so in my mind, what could be better than a porn star owned MMA gym? I mean, it’s a match made in heaven (well, MY heaven anyway!) I wish Derrick the best of luck, and much success! Check out the article below for additional information:

Ladies, gone are the days where the only male pornstar anyone recognizes is Ron Jeremy! No offence to Ron – I’m sure he’s a nice guy and all – but, um…..EWWWWWW!!!! I don’t care how big your dick is, dude, you’re not puting that thing anywhere near me. What kind of gal would honestly be sexually attracted to a guy nicknamed “The Hedgehog”?! I mean, seriously people! On the other hand, there are plenty of other male pornstars out there that – hypothetically, of course – I would be totally OK with their dick near me, hell IN me! (Did I just say that?….hee hee). But I digress…

The age of sexy male pornstars has arrived! And lucky for us, it has coincided with the age of porn to mainstream crossovers, so you can get an “R” rated peek before investing in the “XXX” stuff. Case in point: male porn star and hot guy  Tommy Gunn will make a guest appearance on an upcoming episode of HBO’s “Entourage” (one of my favorite shows, by the way!) If you recall I previously posted about Sasha Grey landing a recurring role on the hit TV show – playing herself, and it’s no coincidence that Tommy’s role is related (he plays her “ex”.) I already have my DVR set to record this new season, and I can’t wait to see Vincent and the boys interact with the world of adult entertainment!

A new survey reveals more women are having wilder sex and watching porn.

Yes, that’s what I said – you can learn from porn (and when I say “you”, I’m refering to those of you out there who are heterosexual women – or at the very least, someone who likes or wants to like sex with a man.) And the porn I’m talking about isn’t an adult “instructional” video (although some of them are pretty cool.) I’m talking about your garden-variety, made for the heterosexual male audience, adult movies. Sure they can be cheesy and crass, and many are borderline or downright degrading to women. But hidden within the typical porn scene, there are some nuggets of information that can improve your sex life (and your partner’s too.)

First, let’s go over some of the things you will NOT learn from porn (though I suspect most of you already know this…) You will not learn how to love, or be in a loving relationship (sex is only PART of the picture). You will not learn how to be a porn star (there’s a lot more to it than what you see in a porn scene.) And you will definitely not learn how to balance the sexual aspect of your life with all the other aspects, mearly from watching porn.

 Now that we’ve defined our expectations, here’s what you CAN learn from porn:

1. What kind of sex does a man like? Do you think you already know this? Think again. Watch some porn – you might be surprised. And yet, it’s actually pretty logical. Most porn out there is created and marketed with the male audience in mind (one of my pet peeves, for sure, but that’s another topic for another post!) And ladies, those men out there are buying and watching it in droves (yes, probably YOUR man, whether you know it or not.) Sex, and particularly masturbation, is one of the most honest actions out there because you can not make yourself get off on something that doesn’t get you off. With a partner, you may be able to “fake” it, but you’ll never be able to truly get off unless you are doing or watching something that really turns you on. My point is, the porn that’s popular is popular because that’s what gets men off – even if they choose not to admit it to you.

2. I’ve seen what kind of sex the typical man likes, but now what? So, I’ve watched some porn and seen what’s popular. So what? How does that apply to me? I’m not a porn star. I can’t/won’t do what they do! Can I? Well, here’s my philosophy. If you are in a loving relationship, or if you at least are motivated to please your man, then why wouldn’t you want to give him what he wants? (Of course, the caveat here is that you have EVERY right to ask him to give you what you want in return, but again that’s another post for another time.) I don’t know why it is that this concept is so difficult for many women, but it’s where I part company with them. Most likely you’ve got this concept down in other aspects of your life – you cook him what he likes. You give him gifts you know he likes. So, why should sex be different? Give him what he likes. That may not sound very “feminist”, but hear me out. Certainly there are boundaries. If you are truly not comfortable with something then absolutely don’t do it. No one should ever force you to do something against your will. But if you are just holding out because you find something ”icky”, or because you are too lazy to learn or try something new, or perhaps you like playing games by witholding what he likes, then it’s time for a reality check. There’s give and take with everything in a relationship, and sex is no different. Just because it doesn’t turn YOU on, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it. And just because you act like a porn star doesn’t mean you ARE one. It’s OK to enjoy sex. It’s OK to enjoy pleasing your man. It is not wrong, evil, and it doesn’t have to be degrading. Do your man a favor! Do yourself a favor! Pick one move that you saw in a porn scene, and just try it the next time you’re with your man. Men are simple creatures. Something as simple as spitting on their dick while giving them a blowjob will probably send them over the edge! Even if that particular move doesn’t seem to do much, he will appreciate your effort. Either way, go back and pick another one. And another one until you have a nice bag of tricks. You think I’m full of shit? Try it – and then come back here and post a comment. I’ll approve all comments, positive or negative, as long as they are true feedback about this topic.

 3. Enjoy pleasing your man! OK, like I said you don’t have to get off to it yourself, but just look at how much fun your guy is having. I don’t know about you, but turning my man on turns me on. Seeing that look on his face when I rock his world gets me closer to my own nirvana. And over the years I’ve actually become more and more “into it”. I like playing the sexy slut (yes, I said slut) who’s only for his eyes and his enjoyment! Perhaps that’s why we still rock the bedroom even though we’ve been having sex with each other for over a decade.

 So, in conclusion, I recommend at least a small dose of porn on a regular basis. These days, it’s super easy to watch porn in the privacy of your own home, when it’s convenient for you. Perhaps I’ll do a follow-up post with more information on finding good porn online. In the meantime, check out my links list to the right – it’s all stuff I enjoy. I hope you do too!