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December 2nd, 2011 at 1:43 pm

Porn For Women (no, really!) at GirlzPorn

There’s new website in town, GirlzPorn, and if you’re a girl who likes (or is curious about) porn, then you should check it out! Now, I know what you’re thinking – “Yeah, SURE it’s for women. It’s probably just porn for guys and re-packaged for women. Or it’s porn for gay guys. So, what’s the catch with this one?!” Well, I assure you it’s the real McCoy, ladies! Not only do they offer porn specifically created for women, they provide sex advice, news, a blog, and an active community of like-minded porn-loving women. It launched earlier this year and is already receiving accolades and awards.

There are VERY FEW websites and porn companies out there that specifically create/promote porn FOR WOMEN. Trust me, I know, I’ve been searching the web for them for years! If you like what you see, I hope you’ll support GirlzPorn! Here’s an article about their recent XBIZ Award nomination:


GirlzPorn Earns XBIZ Award Nomination for Specialty Site of the Year

 

GirlzPorn has been nominated for Specialty/Alternative Site of the Year at the 2012 XBIZ Awards.
November 11th, 2011 at 11:11 am

Top 11 Male Pornstars of 2011

***Updated 3/5/12: I added photos and biographical information for my Top 11 of 2011!***

Here it is, folks! My list of the top 11 (straight) male performers of porn for 2011. On, of course 11/11/11 at 11:11! Like my post last year, this is just my personal opinion, and there were many many guys I took a look at.  My research took WAY longer than I anticipated – looking at movies, looking up awards, finding websites and personal info, so I appreciate you sticking with me while I have been updating this list. All of these adult performers have proven themselves to be the best at their craft, and besides I think they’re f’n HOT! And trust me, there are so many that deserve props, but I had to narrow it down to 11, so if you don’t see ”your guy” on there, it doesn’t mean I don’t think he’s awesome, it just means maybe he’ll make it on my list next year! (And of course I welcome suggestions/nominations, so send ’em in!) Anyway, without further ado, here’s the list (in alphabetical order by first name):

Dale DaBone

White – American / DOB: 1-8-72 / Height: 6′ / Foreskin: cut

2011 Awards: XBIZ Performer Comeback of the Year, XRCO Best Cumback

Videos at Adam&Eve, CDUniverse, Gamelink

Twitter / Facebook / Wikipedia / LA Direct Models

Bio: drummer in various bands, dated Jennifer Capriotti (tennis star), spokesperson for Raw Nation and Hotrawks, lives in Los Angeles, CA.

Flash Brown

Black - American / DOB: 1-17-79 / Height: 6′6″ / Foreskin: cut

2011 Awards: XBIZ New male Performer of the Year, XRCO nomination for New Stud, performer in XBIZ and Urban X Feature Movie of the Year (Speed/Wicked Pictures)

Videos at: Adam&Eve, CDUniverse, Gamelink

Official Website / BlogTwitterModel Mayhem

Bio: College degree in Business Administration, semi-pro and pro basketball player, mainstream model, from Memphis, TN.

Keni Styles

Asian (Thai) - British / DOB: 5-27-81/ Height: 5′9″ / Foreskin: uncut

2011 Awards: XBIZ Male Acting Performance of the Year, performer in XBIZ and Urban X Feature Movie of the Year (Speed/Wicked Pictures)

Videos at: Adam&Eve, CDUniverse, Gamelink, Brazzers

Official Website / Tumblr / Twitter / Facebook / YouTube / Wikipedia

Bio: Born in Thailand, served in the British Army, currently lives in L.A. In 2011 he was nominated for 3 AVN Awards, 2 XBIZ Awards and an Urban X Award. One look at his Twitter feed will tell you he is a very positive guy with a lot of depth. My favorite quote of his: “The whole size issue is ridiculous. You don’t fuck someone with your dick, you fuck someone with your whole body, your attitude, your presence. The moment you say, “Oh, my dick is X inches long,” you’ve let society win the battle of thinking it matters. And it just doesn’t. I’m not the biggest there is, and I’m not the smallest, but I’ve never measured my penis against anything than a girl’s vagina. If it fits and she’s happy, I’m happy.” Thank you to BlasianNarrative for turning me on to this quote!

Lexington Steele

Black - American / DOB: 11-28-69 / Height: 6′2″ / Foreskin: cut

2011 Awards: AVN Best Interracial Release, XBIZ Ethnic Release (Lex The Impaler 5/Jules Jordan Video), Urban X Award for Director of the Year, Pornstar Network Most Popular

Videos at: Adam&Eve, CDUniverse, Gamelink, Brazzers

Official Website / Twitter / Facebook / YouTube / Wikipedia

Bio: double college degree in History and African-American studies, past Wall Street broker, appeared in mainstream TV: 2 episodes of Weeds in 2007 and an episode of Nip/Tuck, plus the movie Crank 2: High Voltage

Manuel Ferrara

White - French / DOB: 11-1-75 / Height: 6′1″ / Foreskin: uncut

2011 Awards: AVN Best Couples Sex Scene (Kristina Rose Is Slutwoman/Elegant Angel), Best Anal Sex Scene (Asa Akira Is Insatiable/Elegant Angel), Best Anal-Themed Series (Evil Anal/Manuel Ferrara), Best Gonzo Series (Slutty & Sluttier/Manuel Ferrara/Evil Angel), XRCO Male Performer of the Year, XRCO Hall of Fame, performer in XBIZ and Urban X Feature Movie of the Year (Speed/Wicked Pictures), Brazzers Most Popular, Pornstar Network Most Popular

Videos at: Adam&Eve, CDUniverse, Gamelink, Brazzers

Official Website / Twitter / Facebook / Wikipedia

Bio: Born in France, lives in Los Angeles, CA. At the 2011 AVN Awards he won Male Performer of the Year for the fourth time!

Mick Blue

White - Austrian / DOB: 9-9-76 / Height: 5′10″ / Foreskin: uncut

2011 Awards: performer in XBIZ and Urban X Feature Movie of the Year (Speed/Wicked Pictures), performer in AVN Best Comedy (Couples Camp/Wicked Pictures), performer in Urban X Award Best Asian Release (Asian Eyes/Wicked), nominated for XRCO Male Performer of the Year

Videos at: Adam&Eve, CDUniverse, Gamelink, Brazzers

Official Website / Twitter / Facebook / Wikipedia

Bio: Also a boxer, grew up in Austria about 5 minutes drive from Arnold Schwarzenegger, lives in Los Angeles, CA.

Mr. Marcus

Black - American / DOB: 9-4-70 / Height: 5′9″ / Foreskin: cut

2011 Awards: Performer in XBIZ and Urban X Feature Movie of the Year (Speed/Wicked Pictures), Urban X Award for Best Big Butt Release (Big Butt Bettys 2/Silverback Entertainment)

Videos at: Adam&Eve, CDUniverse, Gamelink

Official Website / Twitter / Facebook / Wikipedia

Bio: CEO of Silverback Entertainment, author of the book The Porn Star Guide to Great Sex, several TV appearances including MTV, BET, VH1, CNN, Fox News, and has a line of Mr. Marcus sex toys.

Prince Yahshua

Black - American / DOB: 3-21-70 / Height: 5′11″ / Foreskin: cut

2011 Awards: XBIZ Performer Comeback of the Year, performer in XBIZ and Urban X Feature Movie of the Year (Speed/Wicked Pictures), Urban X Award for Best Male Performer

Official Website / Twitter / Facebook / Fuck Me Filthy

Videos at: Adam&Eve, CDUniverse, Gamelink

Bio: Chicago native, began directing in 2008, and later founded Silverback Entertainment which aims to distribute ethnic porn without the stereotypes, dating porn star Aryana Star, interview on LadezNight.com, LA Direct Models

Scott Nails

White - American / DOB: 4-29-82 / Height: 6′ / Foreskin: cut

2012 Awards: nominated for AVN’s Best Boy/Girl Sex Scene (Fighters/Digital Playground), Best Three-Way Sex Scene (Bad Girls 5/Digital Playground), Best Three-Way Sex Scene (Legs Up Hose Down/Jules Jordan), Brazzers most popular

Videos at: Adam&Eve, CDUniverse, Gamelink, Brazzers

Twitter / Wikipedia

Bio: From Phoenix, AZ. Over 500 movies with all major studios. His tattoo is the same tattoo that George Clooney has in the movie From Dusk Till Dawn

Spyder Jonez

White - American / DOB: 12-29-67 / Height: 5′9″ / Foreskin: cut

2011 Awards: Performer in XBIZ and Urban X Feature Movie of the Year (Speed/Wicked Pictures)

Official Website / Twitter / Facebook

Videos at: CDUniverse, Gamelink

Bio: Also known as Evan Seinfeld. From Brooklyn, NY, living in Los Angeles, previous bass/vocals with various bands including Biohazard, currently plays with Spyderz, ex-husband of pornstar Tera Patrick, now married to pornstar Lupe Fuentes, portrayed Jaz Hoyt in HBO prison drama Oz, in several TV series and independent films, featured in 2008 book Permanence: Tattoo Portraits by Kip Fulbeck, character in 2010 book: Sex Tips from Rock Stars: In Their Own Words

Xander Corvus

White - American / DOB: 11-18-88 / Height: 5′11″ / Foreskin: cut

2011 Awards: XBIZ New Male Performer of the Year and Supporting Acting Performance of the Year, XRCO New Stud, Brazzers most popular

Videos at: Adam&Eve, CDUniverse, Gamelink, Brazzers

Twitter / Facebook

Bio: The youngest pornstar on my list. Began his career in 2010. Lives in Los Angeles, CA.

Honorable Mention: Anthony Rosano, Criss Strokes, Danny Mountain, Erik Everhard, Evan Stone, James Deen, Johnny Sins, Keiran Lee, Mark Ashley, Michael Stephano, Mr. Pete, Ramon, Rocco Sifredi, Tom Byron, Tommy Gunn

Well, that about raps things up with my top male pornstar list for 2011. You might notice (as I did) that there is a lack of Latin/Hispanic guys in this list. I really did try to find some that were in the same league as these other hotties, but aside from Ramon (honorable mention), they just don’t seem to be out there! I don’t know if it’s a coincidence or it’s a cultural thing, or some other reason? I have seen plenty of Latin guys in porn, but there just don’t seem to be too many bonafide pornSTARS. Perhaps I will have to inquire about this with some of my contacts in the industry and find out what the deal is. Cuz I LOVE me some Latin guys, damn it! Anyway, I hope you enjoy my list! If you appreciate the work and time I put into this (finding all the info, narrowing it down, and providing you links for their work), please click on some links and buy some movies!

June 30th, 2011 at 10:41 am

“Streaming Killed The DVD Porn Market”


Video Streaming to Kill Off DVDs, Study Says

 

Video streaming will cause physical DVD sales to plummet over the next few years according to a recent research study.
March 31st, 2011 at 12:34 am

Porn and MMA: 2 of My Favorite Things!

Well, it’s not likely that a famous MMA fighter would cross over and become a porn star, but…. Wait a minute - now that I think of it, that’s not too far fetched, really. I mean, many fighters are sexy guys and I’m sure a good number of them are “playahs”, (hell, one of ‘em – Tito Ortiz - married Jenna Jameson, the ultimate pornstar! And yes, I intentionally chose the word “ultimate” as a reference to the UFC!) So these fighters probably know their way around a  pussy bedroom. Well, hey, if it does happen you can say that I was the first one to write an article about the concept anyway! But I digress (what else is new?!)

So, the crossover that IS happening is that porn star (and first time porn director!) and all around hottie Derrick Pierce opened an MMA gym in Los Angeles! Now those of you that know me, know that I love me some MMA, so in my mind, what could be better than a porn star owned MMA gym? I mean, it’s a match made in heaven (well, MY heaven anyway!) I wish Derrick the best of luck, and much success! Check out the article below for additional information:

Derrick Pierce Directs BDSM Movie, Opens MMA Gym

 

Derrick Pierce on Thursday began principal photography on his directorial debut for Adam & Eve Pictures, “Pretty Tied Up.”
June 30th, 2010 at 11:24 am

Male Pornstar Lastest Mainstream Crossover

Ladies, gone are the days where the only male pornstar anyone recognizes is Ron Jeremy! No offence to Ron – I’m sure he’s a nice guy and all – but, um…..EWWWWWW!!!! I don’t care how big your dick is, dude, you’re not puting that thing anywhere near me. What kind of gal would honestly be sexually attracted to a guy nicknamed “The Hedgehog”?! I mean, seriously people! On the other hand, there are plenty of other male pornstars out there that – hypothetically, of course – I would be totally OK with their dick near me, hell IN me! (Did I just say that?….hee hee). But I digress…

The age of sexy male pornstars has arrived! And lucky for us, it has coincided with the age of porn to mainstream crossovers, so you can get an “R” rated peek before investing in the “XXX” stuff. Case in point: male porn star and hot guy  Tommy Gunn will make a guest appearance on an upcoming episode of HBO’s “Entourage” (one of my favorite shows, by the way!) If you recall I previously posted about Sasha Grey landing a recurring role on the hit TV show – playing herself, and it’s no coincidence that Tommy’s role is related (he plays her “ex”.) I already have my DVR set to record this new season, and I can’t wait to see Vincent and the boys interact with the world of adult entertainment!


Porn Star Tommy Gunn Lands Role on ‘Entourage’

 

Porn star Tommy Gunn will get a taste of crossover stardom in an upcoming episode of HBO’s “Entourage,” he told XBIZ.
April 28th, 2010 at 11:05 am

Anti-Porn Feminists: ignorant or enlightened?

in: News, Porn, Women

Pink Visual President Allison Vivas fired back at anti-porn feminists who objected to the planned screening of porn at Princeton University’s “Let’s Talk Sex” event last month.
March 3rd, 2010 at 3:34 pm

Give Up Your Bible, Get Some Porn

in: News, Porn


Atheist Group Exchanges Bibles for Porn

 

An atheist group at the University of Texas at San Antonio is creating a buzz with its annual Smut for Smut campaign.
March 3rd, 2010 at 12:26 am

Feminist Porn Awards (no, that’s not an oxymoron)

in: News, Porn, Women


Good For Her Announces Feminist Porn Awards Nominees

 

Good For Her has announced the nominees for its fifth annual Feminist Porn Awards.
February 22nd, 2010 at 11:00 am

Women, Sex, and Porn

in: News, Porn, Sex, Women


New Survey Shows More Women Having Wilder Sex, Watching Porn

A new survey reveals more women are having wilder sex and watching porn.

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October 15th, 2009 at 10:21 am

What women can learn from porn

Yes, that’s what I said – you can learn from porn (and when I say “you”, I’m refering to those of you out there who are heterosexual women – or at the very least, someone who likes or wants to like sex with a man.) And the porn I’m talking about isn’t an adult “instructional” video (although some of them are pretty cool.) I’m talking about your garden-variety, made for the heterosexual male audience, adult movies. Sure they can be cheesy and crass, and many are borderline or downright degrading to women. But hidden within the typical porn scene, there are some nuggets of information that can improve your sex life (and your partner’s too.)

First, let’s go over some of the things you will NOT learn from porn (though I suspect most of you already know this…) You will not learn how to love, or be in a loving relationship (sex is only PART of the picture). You will not learn how to be a porn star (there’s a lot more to it than what you see in a porn scene.) And you will definitely not learn how to balance the sexual aspect of your life with all the other aspects, mearly from watching porn.

 Now that we’ve defined our expectations, here’s what you CAN learn from porn:

1. What kind of sex does a man like? Do you think you already know this? Think again. Watch some porn – you might be surprised. And yet, it’s actually pretty logical. Most porn out there is created and marketed with the male audience in mind (one of my pet peeves, for sure, but that’s another topic for another post!) And ladies, those men out there are buying and watching it in droves (yes, probably YOUR man, whether you know it or not.) Sex, and particularly masturbation, is one of the most honest actions out there because you can not make yourself get off on something that doesn’t get you off. With a partner, you may be able to “fake” it, but you’ll never be able to truly get off unless you are doing or watching something that really turns you on. My point is, the porn that’s popular is popular because that’s what gets men off – even if they choose not to admit it to you.

2. I’ve seen what kind of sex the typical man likes, but now what? So, I’ve watched some porn and seen what’s popular. So what? How does that apply to me? I’m not a porn star. I can’t/won’t do what they do! Can I? Well, here’s my philosophy. If you are in a loving relationship, or if you at least are motivated to please your man, then why wouldn’t you want to give him what he wants? (Of course, the caveat here is that you have EVERY right to ask him to give you what you want in return, but again that’s another post for another time.) I don’t know why it is that this concept is so difficult for many women, but it’s where I part company with them. Most likely you’ve got this concept down in other aspects of your life – you cook him what he likes. You give him gifts you know he likes. So, why should sex be different? Give him what he likes. That may not sound very “feminist”, but hear me out. Certainly there are boundaries. If you are truly not comfortable with something then absolutely don’t do it. No one should ever force you to do something against your will. But if you are just holding out because you find something ”icky”, or because you are too lazy to learn or try something new, or perhaps you like playing games by witholding what he likes, then it’s time for a reality check. There’s give and take with everything in a relationship, and sex is no different. Just because it doesn’t turn YOU on, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it. And just because you act like a porn star doesn’t mean you ARE one. It’s OK to enjoy sex. It’s OK to enjoy pleasing your man. It is not wrong, evil, and it doesn’t have to be degrading. Do your man a favor! Do yourself a favor! Pick one move that you saw in a porn scene, and just try it the next time you’re with your man. Men are simple creatures. Something as simple as spitting on their dick while giving them a blowjob will probably send them over the edge! Even if that particular move doesn’t seem to do much, he will appreciate your effort. Either way, go back and pick another one. And another one until you have a nice bag of tricks. You think I’m full of shit? Try it – and then come back here and post a comment. I’ll approve all comments, positive or negative, as long as they are true feedback about this topic.

 3. Enjoy pleasing your man! OK, like I said you don’t have to get off to it yourself, but just look at how much fun your guy is having. I don’t know about you, but turning my man on turns me on. Seeing that look on his face when I rock his world gets me closer to my own nirvana. And over the years I’ve actually become more and more “into it”. I like playing the sexy slut (yes, I said slut) who’s only for his eyes and his enjoyment! Perhaps that’s why we still rock the bedroom even though we’ve been having sex with each other for over a decade.

 So, in conclusion, I recommend at least a small dose of porn on a regular basis. These days, it’s super easy to watch porn in the privacy of your own home, when it’s convenient for you. Perhaps I’ll do a follow-up post with more information on finding good porn online. In the meantime, check out my links list to the right – it’s all stuff I enjoy. I hope you do too!