There’s new website in town, GirlzPorn, and if you’re a girl who likes (or is curious about) porn, then you should check it out! Now, I know what you’re thinking – “Yeah, SURE it’s for women. It’s probably just porn for guys and re-packaged for women. Or it’s porn for gay guys. So, what’s the catch with this one?!” Well, I assure you it’s the real McCoy, ladies! Not only do they offer porn specifically created for women, they provide sex advice, news, a blog, and an active community of like-minded porn-loving women. It launched earlier this year and is already receiving accolades and awards.

There are VERY FEW websites and porn companies out there that specifically create/promote porn FOR WOMEN. Trust me, I know, I’ve been searching the web for them for years! If you like what you see, I hope you’ll support GirlzPorn! Here’s an article about their recent XBIZ Award nomination:

Here it is, folks! My list of the top 11 (straight) male performers of porn for 2011. On, of course 11/11/11 at 11:11! Like my post last year, this is just my personal opinion, and there were many many guys I took a look at. I’m going to start out by just listing their names, but I will be going back in and adding more information on them, photos, and where you can find more of them. My research took WAY longer than I anticipated – looking at movies, looking up awards, finding websites and personal info. So, for now here’s the list (again, in alphabetical order):

1. Dale DaBone
2. Flash Brown
3. Keni Styles
4. Lexington Steele
5. Manuel Ferrara
6. Mick Blue
7. Mr. Marcus
8. Prince Yahshua
9. Scott Nails
10. Spyder Jonez
11. Xander Corvus

All of these adult performers have proven themselves to be the best at their craft, and besides I think they’re HOT! Come back soon for more info on these hotties!

Are you on your mobile device right now? Are you looking for mobile porn for women? Yep, me too! In fact, not long ago that was EXACTLY what I was looking for on a nice quiet evening! My man was out of town, and I had put the kids to bed and was chilling out in the bedroom, when the mood kinda struck me. So I reached over to my iPad and figured I’d just Google something. What a fuckin’ buzz kill! OK, I consider myself to be pretty knowledgeable about the porn that’s out there, but I was striking out all over the place! Either the site I went to didn’t have a good mobile format, or it just didn’t have stuff I was interested in. Especially if I was gonna pay for it! (By the way, you do get what you pay for – which means the “free” stuff usually SUCKS! But that’s a post for another day…) Anyway, I got more and more frustrated, and finally gave up, got my vibrator out, and just used my imagination (which is pretty triple X, but let’s just say it wasn’t new material….) So, I just recently started searching for mobile porn for women, and found this lovely site called Sssh.com! It’s for women – BY women! What a concept, huh?! And they cater to both computer users and mobile phone and handheld device users! So now I have a plan in place for the NEXT time the hubby takes a business trip!! I might even surprise him, and suggest we watch something together – something that I PICKED (not that he doesn’t choose good porn – but sometimes I like to be in control!) Anyway, good mobile porn for women does actually exist! Check it out!

Yep, February 22, 2011 has been officially named Lady Porn Day, thanks to Rachel Rabbit White (my new hero!) Here’s one of her recent tweets that sums it up:

“Esp. in terms of dealing w/ guilt or body image & sexuality. I want to empower girls who like porn & not erase those who dont.”

Exactly. On so many subjects, including porn and sex, we think we need to take a side and hate the other side. But it doesn’t have to be that way. It’s totally OK to like porn. It’s totally OK not to like porn. What’s important is knowing which one you are and why, and respecting the other camp. If porn ain’t your thing, no problem. And probably any further discussion of it is not necessary for you. I wish you a wonderful day and a wonderful life. Truly, I do!

Now, if you’re like me (a woman who enjoys porn), read on! I’ll bet one of the first things you’re saying is, “Yeah, I like porn but there’s not a lot out there for ME.” Yep, sad but true. Here’s why I think women have a problem finding porn:

1. Most porn is made BY and FOR men. This is true for both straight porn, and of course gay porn – which has hot guys, but not quite in the angles and positions that get your motor going. There is a smaller lesbian market, which has some hot girl-girl stuff going on, but would require a whole different post, so I’m focusing on straight porn here. You may think it is some diabolical plot against women but I think the reason is much more simple. Money. When you create a product, you go after the largest market share in order to gain the biggest profit. Who is the biggest market share for the porn industry? Men.

2. Women don’t buy/watch a lot of porn. I know, it’s a chicken and egg scenario. If there’s nothing out there for us, we’re not going to buy/watch it. But if we don’t make the effort to find something we like, and become a vocal consumer, this will not change.

3. Women have been taught that porn (and in general, a female enjoying sex) is wrong. And in fact we are getting that brainwashing from “both” sides. The conservative side says it is morally and spiritually wrong. And the liberal “feminist” tells us that porn is degrading to women. It’s no wonder we get a guilt trip regardless of our position on the religious/political/ethical continuum.

4. Women don’t feel comfortable talking about sex or porn. With anyone. Not our friends. Not our partners. My guess is that we are afraid of being judged by our female friends. And perhaps we are afraid to open up and expose our fantasies with our partners for fear of being rejected. Whatever the case, women don’t talk about sex and porn nearly as much as we THINK about it!

5. What women like is as varied and complex as what men like. Now, I realize the stereotypical “porn for chicks” is porn that has a story line, lavish sets, a sense of sensual pleasure and passion between the partners, isn’t too “out there” (whatever that means), and of course a handsome guy in it. And this is because a lot of women have said that’s what they want. But I’m here to tell you that this is only one segment of the female market. Women are turned on by much much more. Personally, I get annoyed when there’s too much story line and not enough sex. And as long as all involved look like they’re having a good time, I don’t NEED a lavish set or partners dripping with passion. The one component that is a deal-breaker for me is the guy. Yep, he has to be hot. Hey, we are talking about fantasy here. If the guy doesn’t turn me on, the porn doesn’t turn me on. Fortunately, the industry is finally getting hip to this, and is casting hot guys in porn. Woo hoo!

All of these barriers are starting to break down, but we’ve got a long way to go, baby. And not to sound cliche, but the change starts with YOU. Ladies, it’s time to make the effort to seek out what you like. Buy what you like. Get vocal about what you like (especially with your partner)! If you’re a bit shy, and aren’t up for going “public” yet with your interest in porn (talking about it with others, or going to an adult retail store), there’s a lot you can do privately from the comfort of your own home (or if you’re a bit more daring, your office), thanks to the internet:

1. Google lots of stuff like “porn for women”, “hot guys in porn”, popular porn for women”, and any other keywords that you are looking for. The more specific the better. If you fantasize about being tied up, Google those words! Find out what’s out there. You will also learn more about what you like or don’t like, the more you look.

2. There are tons of sex blogs by women out there. Each with their own personal viewpoint and recommendations. The more you find, the more you’ll find. Trust me – we sex bloggers like to connect! Start with my blogroll, and see where it takes you.

3. There are tons of sex toy websites out there. In addition to tons of DVDs for sale, they have forums and blogs with vocal women talking about what they like, and where to find it. A few of them are: Adam & Eve, Eden Fantasys, Babeland, and Good Vibrations. After doing some research, buy yourself a DVD – or two or three. If you find something you like, get other similar DVDs (same studio, same performers, same genre.)

4. If you want to watch something right away, and/or not spend a ton of money, check out an adult VOD (video on demand) website like Hot Movies For Her.

5. If you like a specific porn star, many of them have a personal website that you can subscribe to, and watch them in action on a regular basis. One pornstar and website that is popular with couples is Kelly Madison. She and her husband Ryan film their sexual encounters and share them with you. They put a lot of thought and energy into making short and entertaining story lines, sexy scenes, sex that’s hardcore but still tasteful, and they love their fans. Whether it’s Kelly, or another star, sometimes following someone specific can help you focus and explore your sexual desires.

6. Once you figure out what you like, SUPPORT what you like. Support your favorite bloggers by clicking on their links, and patronizing their sponsors/ads. Support your favorite adult retail website by buying their products and being active in their forums and blogs. Support your favorite adult websites by subscribing to them. They key to getting what you want, and more of it, is to speak up. And fortunately the internet provides you a way to do it annonymously – if you so desire, and still be heard. You have no excuse. You really don’t!

Well, this turned out to be a loooong post! I guess I’ve got some opinions, huh! Anyway, I hope this has been helpful. This is exactly the reason why I started this blog – because I think women need to talk more about sex and porn. So, let’s get to talking!

In celebration of the date and time of 10/10/10 at 10:10, I thought a Top 10 List would be fitting. And what better list to put together than my picks for the Top 10 Male Porn Stars of 2010! I will add a caveat that I am talking about straight porn (no offense to the wonderful men of gay porn out there, but I’m just not an expert in that field!)

My criteria is based on the following: body, face, performance, personality,  and of course their tool of the trade (a.k.a. penis). For each guy on the list I will include some stats, and any noteworthy observation(s). In addition, here are some general observations after compiling the list:

- I tried to find their sexiest still photo pictures, but with some of them I had a hard time
- Most of these guys have won one or more industry awards (AVN, XBIZ, etc.)
- Many of them have some sexy photos over at LA Direct Models
- You should be able to find DVDs of all these guys at Adam&Eve, Eden Fantasys or Babeland
- If you are interested in watching them “On Demand”, check out Hot Movies For Her
- And if you’d like to watch them on a membership site, most of them are on either the Brazzers Network or Pornstar Network

I am puting them in alphabetical order (by first name) because after doing all the research I honestly did not have the time to specifically rate them in a detailed analysis against each other. So, without further ado, I present to you my Top 10 Male Porn Stars of 2010:

1. Dane Cross
Caucasian-American | DOB 1983 | circumcised | Brazzers | Twitter | My Space | LA Direct Models | You Tube
Notes: With an a bit of an alt look, and recent awards, this guy is HOT!

2. Danny Mountain
Caucasian-British | DOB 1984 | uncircumcised | Brazzers | LA Direct Models | You Tube
Notes: An English accent and dashing looks, he’s one of the youngest on the list.

 3. Evan Stone
Caucasian-American | DOB 1964 | circumcised | EvanStone.com | Facebook | My Space | Twitter | You Tube
Notes: He’s been in many award-winning movies, and it’s because he delivers!

4. Johnny Sins
Caucasian-American | DOB 1979 | circumcised | Brazzers | Twitter
Notes: One of the few on my list with no awards, but his hotness prevailed!

5. Keiran Lee
Caucasian-British | DOB 1984 | circumcised uncircumcised | Brazzers | Twitter | My Space | You Tube
Notes: English accent, great sense of humor, nice cock (and face too!) A trifecta for you ladies!

 Update: I originally had him incorrectly as circumcised, but after an O4Her reader pointed out the mistake, I’ve corrected it! Thanks, “xxx”! : )

6. Lexington Steele
African-American | DOB 1969 | circumcised | LexSteele.com | Mercenary Pictures | Twitter | Facebook | You Tube
Notes: Probably one of the most well-known on my list. The one. The only, Lex Steele!

7. Marco Banderas
Latin-Uruguayan | DOB 1967 | uncircumcised | Pornstar Network | Banderas Digital | Twitter | Facebook | My Space | You Tube
Notes: With recent awards, and a sexy latin accent, this Latin Lover is caliente!

8. Prince Yahshua
African-American | DOB 1970 | circumcised | Pornstar Network | Facebook | My Space | Twitter
Notes: What girl doesn’t want to get with a Prince? And there’s plenty of him to go around!

9. Ryan Madison
Caucasian-American | DOB 1976 | circumcised | Porn Fidelity | Twitter | Facebook
Notes: The social media links are for Ryan’s wife Kelly (porn star), but they are married and he’s a big part of her websites. And I highly recommend them if you want to view porn as a couple.

   

Chris Johnson, Erik Everhard, James Deen, Manuel Ferrara, Mr. Marcus, Ralph Long, Shane Diesel and Tommy Gunn

Now that I’ve shared my opinion, what’s yours? Do you like my list? Who would you change? In fact, please share your own Top 10 Male Pornstar List!  (Or Top 5, Or Top 3…I’m not picky!) Let’s make this the most comprehensive list out there!

I actually came across the Our Porn, Ourselves website while checking out Facebook pages that had the word “porn” in them (long story for another post, but since FB has a strict no porn rule, I just wanted to see what they infact DID allow…) Anyway, one of the first on the list was “Our Porn, Ourselves”, and I went over and checked out their website. It was no surprise to me to learn that the organizer is one of the best voices today about women and porn: Violet Blue (her blog is on my blogroll already.)

Now, this is my kind of website! Although it’s a resource for smart, feminist women that are curious (or already know) about how they can enjoy porn, all genders are welcome. It also brings awareness about the very obnoxious anti-porn movement, their deceptive tactics, and the concern we should all have about it’s affect on our rights in this country. Like I said – my kind of site!

Anyway, I highly recommend you check it out. And I dare you to “Like” their page on Facebook!

Adam & Eve adult movies have gone mobile! Now, I don’t know if you have yet attempted to watch porn on your mobile device, but let’s just say that for most websites, it ain’t pretty (even when the performers are)! So, imagine my excitement when I learned of this latest launch. It’s a website formatted specifically for your mobile device. And not just any site. Not just any porn. But Adam & fricken’ Eve! I think the adult industry is finally starting to wake up and realize that porn for women can be cutting edge too! YAY!!!!

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