This is my first attempt at erotica….and it’s dedicated to all those couples out there who have been together long enough for sex to be boring – and yet choose to make it exciting!…
It had been a week since she’d seen him. She had been distracted and displaced by a week-long trip with the kids [...]

“Sex and relationships, infused by the brain.”
I don’t have much time these days to devote to reading other blogs, but I do have my favorites (see my list of “My Favorite Blogs”), and the one I seem to always check regularly (and the one I like to contribute comments to) is Smart Girls Who Do [...]

So, I consider myself to be pretty liberal when it comes to being attracted to different types of guys. I have enjoyed being intimate with a rainbow of men; of various cultures, colors, ages, backgrounds and the like. On a strictly physical standpoint, I think there are examples of good looking guys in [...]

Hi folks!
I recently found this awesome website which highlights great sex-writing. I submitted a post of mine (Why the deaf are probably great lovers) this week. Please check out this weeks highlights:
Sugasm #142:
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm [...]

You may look at the title of this post and say, “huh?” so let me explain.  I don’t know much about the deaf community.  But I had a great conversation today with a hearing friend of mine who has been taking sign-language classes.  As a by-product of learning to sign, she has also been introduced [...]

So, apparently I needed to look up some statistical data to determine my intuitive guess.  And just as I assumed, there are not a lot of women who have orgasms from intercourse – or that have them regularly at all.  I had arrived at this theory, not due to my own experience (I know, I’m [...]

“…women tend to be more “discerning” shoppers – they want to know where the content is coming from, do the producers/sellers care about them or are they just about a quick buck. As opposed to guys buying with their penises, I think more women shop with their head and heart.”
- Venus Vegas

As many of [...]

Recently, my friend asked me this question in an e-mail.  And although this really has nothing specific to do with the usual chatter on my blog here, I thought it was worth sharing.  Who knows, maybe it could be applied to relationships?  Love?  Sex?…..Here’s my response: 
You know I never miss a chance to pontificate, so here’s my [...]

I just added my O4her aStore through Amazon.com!  I have hand-picked items that I think would appeal to women, in three categories:  books, DVDs, and apparel.  This is just the beginning.  I will be refining my store as I go along, and adding more categories and things like listmania’s, etc. and building up a list of exclusive reviews just [...]

So, I just recently watched the movie “Miss Potter”, which if you don’t already know is about the famous children’s book author.  In addition to enjoying an excellent movie, I was also struck by the extreme restrictions placed on women – particularly as sexual beings.  Not that I wasn’t already aware of this subject, but it [...]