OK, so most folks wouldn’t consider the wedding night to be the most important aspect of getting hitched, but I’d wager that most men rank it pretty dang high on their list! And ladies, why shouldn’t you? If you’ve done your due diligence, you have chosen a man who satisfies you sexually (cuz if your guy doesn’t do [...]

I know my reputation for being naughty has you guessing about what I mean by “goes both ways”…heh heh. But this time I am not talking about being bi-sexual. This is one of my posts where I’m talking about relationships and love…
What do you think of when someone says “Unconditional Love”? If you’re like me, you think of loving [...]

What, do I live under a rock? I consider myself to be pretty aware of things, and especially when it’s female-oriented. I wouldn’t say I’m a die-hard feminist or anything, but close to it, I suppose. And I swear I’ve never heard of International Women’s Day. Yep, that’s what women around the world are celebrating today. In [...]

Wow, I can’t believe it’s been two years since I published my very first post here on O4Her!
In celebration of this anniversary, I am going to list out my Favorite Blogs (right column) - and WHY those sites are on there. It’s not a full-blown review, but kinda a short snapshot review of each blog. Although the list [...]

“The problem is not pornography. The problem is our immature national attitude to sex.”
 - Johnny Anglais
Well said, Johnny! And it looks like you and the other pro-porn debaters kicked ass! It’s about time that logic was used in this debate, rather than emotional, reactionary, judgemental, guilt-ladden bullshit rhetoric! (Yes, I have a strong opinion! LOL)

Cambridge Students Side [...]

Yep, February 22, 2011 has been officially named Lady Porn Day, thanks to Rachel Rabbit White (my new hero!) Here’s one of her recent tweets that sums it up:
“Esp. in terms of dealing w/ guilt or body image & sexuality. I want to empower girls who like porn & not erase those who dont.”
Exactly. On [...]

OK, I know this is my second post in a day – unprecidented!! But I just came across this clip on YouTube of comedian* Whitney Cummings and her rant about why she hates porn, and was LMAO. And don’t think that the irony of her last name is not lost on me either! Anyway, I [...]

Lucy Danziger, Editor-in-Chief of SELF Magazine, says:
“Weekly sexual intimacy appears to regulate your monthly cycle, as well as delay the decline of estrogen as we get older, both of which can enhance fertility, according to research by Winnifred Cutler, Ph.D., founder of the Athena Institute in Chester Springs, Pennsylvania. More estrogen is also linked to [...]

I was just on Twitter (yes, I do tweet, thank you very much!) and saw a hilarious quote on the #RulesForGirls list:
“Be careful what you wish for. If you want a big dick, they usually are.” (Thank you Mika_Tan!)
Oh, there’s at least a few ways I could go with this one:
1. “Ye Olde” size debate (is size really important?)
2. Stop [...]

OK, folks, get your mind out of the gutter! I know – that’s usually where mine is too, but join me in cleaning up for a moment. With all the tragedy in the world, I love being able to report “the good stuff”! And that’s exactly what’s happening over at Adam and Eve. Their charitible [...]