So, I was just looking at my traffic statistics (general data about the kind of folks who visit this site), and I noticed a really cool thing. Although the majority of my traffic is from the “West” (US, Canada, Europe, Australia), there are several other countries represented. I love this, because to me it’s a reminder [...]

Or perhaps all of the above. Yep. I feel like every other day I find out a friend or acquaintance is having a first-hand experience with one, two or even all three of these. What the HELL?! Maybe it’s my *ahem* age-bracket. I guess when you reach your 30’s and 40’s the probabilities of divorce [...]

This last Sunday I walked in my very first AIDS Walk! It’s one of those things that I have said for years I wanted to do, and just never actually “walked the walk”, so to speak! I am so glad I did because not only did I have a fantastic time, but there is nothing [...]

OK, so most folks wouldn’t consider the wedding night to be the most important aspect of getting hitched, but I’d wager that most men rank it pretty dang high on their list! And ladies, why shouldn’t you? If you’ve done your due diligence, you have chosen a man who satisfies you sexually (cuz if your guy doesn’t do [...]

I know my reputation for being naughty has you guessing about what I mean by “goes both ways”…heh heh. But this time I am not talking about being bi-sexual. This is one of my posts where I’m talking about relationships and love…
What do you think of when someone says “Unconditional Love”? If you’re like me, you think of loving [...]

What, do I live under a rock? I consider myself to be pretty aware of things, and especially when it’s female-oriented. I wouldn’t say I’m a die-hard feminist or anything, but close to it, I suppose. And I swear I’ve never heard of International Women’s Day. Yep, that’s what women around the world are celebrating today. In [...]

Wow, I can’t believe it’s been two years since I published my very first post here on O4Her!
In celebration of this anniversary, I am going to list out my Favorite Blogs (right column) - and WHY those sites are on there. It’s not a full-blown review, but kinda a short snapshot review of each blog. Although the list [...]

“The problem is not pornography. The problem is our immature national attitude to sex.”
 - Johnny Anglais
Well said, Johnny! And it looks like you and the other pro-porn debaters kicked ass! It’s about time that logic was used in this debate, rather than emotional, reactionary, judgemental, guilt-ladden bullshit rhetoric! (Yes, I have a strong opinion! LOL)

Cambridge Students Side [...]

Yep, February 22, 2011 has been officially named Lady Porn Day, thanks to Rachel Rabbit White (my new hero!) Here’s one of her recent tweets that sums it up:
“Esp. in terms of dealing w/ guilt or body image & sexuality. I want to empower girls who like porn & not erase those who dont.”
Exactly. On [...]

OK, I know this is my second post in a day – unprecidented!! But I just came across this clip on YouTube of comedian* Whitney Cummings and her rant about why she hates porn, and was LMAO. And don’t think that the irony of her last name is not lost on me either! Anyway, I [...]