This is no doubt a subject that we’ve all discussed, or at least thought about. But I figure I’ll weigh in on it with my two cents (woo hoo, two cliches in one sentence!) So here goes.
Ladies, don’t do it! I know, I know. It’s late, you’re tired, or you’re not comfortable expressing yourself sexually, and yet […]
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Yes, I am a UFC fan
This may not seem like a likely post for a site about sex, but let me assure you, it has everything to do with sexy guys! I know, most hot bodies associated with the UFC (Ultimate Fighting Championship) are the ”ring girls” like Rachel Leah, and don’t get me wrong, those chicks are hot, but I’m here to […]
Long time couples - what turns you on?
So, I was recently talking with my friend and we were discussing how your sex life changes when you have been with someone for a “long time” (I have purposefully made this term vague because the definition of “long time” is different for everyone, but most of us reach that threshold, that point of no return, eventually.) Mind you, I […]
Male / Female communication
So, I have sort of a theory when it comes to how men and women communicate try to communicate. Although I have never read the “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” type books, I suppose this probably would fit into a similar structure. I don’t have any sort of expert degree, but I […]
Is there a cool word for vagina?
No seriously. Cuz I don’t think there is! I mean, guys have all kinds of cool (or at least decent) names associated with their penis: cock, sword, willy, dick, trouser snake, one-eyed wonder, shlong, wang, dong, and any number of personal names which may or may not start with “Mr.” or end in “Junior”. And I realize […]
Having fun at a strip club - Part II (Strip Club 101)
OK, so now that you have a bit of background on my experience with strip clubs, I’ll share my knowledge with you (for those of you that have your own experience, this will be more like a “comparing notes”, and I would love to hear from you about your own experiences and opinions.)
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Having fun at a strip club - Part I
I think for many women the words “fun” and “strip club” don’t mix. Especially if the dancers are female. However, as you may have guessed, I have a different opinion. Not that I always had that opinion. I had two serious relationships prior to my husband, and due to being younger and less-experienced, I was […]
Is being a stripper, porn star, prostitute degrading?
“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” - Eleanor Roosevelt
I think most women out there believe that being a stripper, porn star or prostitute is degrading to women. And they may be right, but I have a different viewpoint. As with all things in this world, nothing is black and white, and I […]
Infidelity: is it ever OK?
Well, every once in a while I’m going to post a topic that has a bit more depth and seriousness, so I thought I’d tackle one of the “biggies” in the sex department: infidelity. Although there may be varying opinions on the exact definition (”I did not have sex with that woman” comes to mind!), […]







