I used to be very frustrated at the movie rating system. I mean, why oh why can you see a human being get brutally murdered in a PG/PG-13 movie (think of the war scenes in the Lord of the Rings for instance), yet seeing two people having simulated sex is considered “bad” enough for an [...]

If you’re lucky enough to live in New York, you can go check out this exhibit. Maybe if it’s popular enough, it’ll go on tour and the rest of us will have an opportunity to check it out. In the meantime, I will put in my two cents. The exhibit is entitled, “Consent”, and deals [...]

Three worlds are colliding for me. I love me some UFC, I love me some porn, and I love me the gays! So, of course you know I had to give a shout out about the latest news. Yep, that’s right folks! There’s a gay (in fact, gay pornstar) MMA fighter – what a shock! #sarcasm. OK, let’s get real for [...]

***Updated 3/5/12: I added photos and biographical information for my Top 11 of 2011!***
Here it is, folks! My list of the top 11 (straight) male performers of porn for 2011. On, of course 11/11/11 at 11:11! Like my post last year, this is just my personal opinion, and there were many many guys I took a [...]

OK, ladies. I’m pretty sure most of us girls have at least one or two – or a whole gaggle - of gay friends, right? (If you don’t, your missing out – just sayin’.) And I think most women (straight or bi, anyway) kinda feel like, hey, I can relate to gay guys, and we have [...]

“Closets are for clothes, not people!”
I just want to take a moment and say to everyone that has come out as gay, lesbian, bi, transexual – GOOD FOR YOU! I am so proud of the friends I have that have come out. It’s not easy sometimes. But it’s just gotta feel so good to finally [...]

Girls RULE! And to be more specific, Girl Gamers RULE! I love to see smart women (in any industry) succeed. And it looks like Porn Stars Alana Evans and Misti Dawn are poised to do just that with their new and awesome (in my opinion) concept, PwnedbyGirls.com. It’s not the first time that the Gaming and [...]

OK, so I have much to say on this subject, but as it turns out someone else pretty much said everything I wanted to say - and probably in a much more hilarious way. I don’t normally just give you a link to another article without weighing in on it too, but I swear she really did say it all [...]

Yep. Well, not really, but that’s what my daughter said the other day, in a sing-song-y voice while swimming in our pool, talking to herself – or so she thought. Despite my shock and desire to say “what the hell?!” (I have my own story about this phrase….) I told her to swim over to me – rather [...]

If you were a teen in the 1980’s, you were around when the word gay was re-purposed. It went from meaning ”happy” to meaning, well, basically - ”lame”. It was used particularly heavily by valley girls, and in Southern California in general, and spread like wildfire across the country. Simultaneously, it also came to be known as the term for someone who [...]