Here it is, folks! My list of the top 11 (straight) male performers of porn for 2011. On, of course 11/11/11 at 11:11! Like my post last year, this is just my personal opinion, and there were many many guys I took a look at. I’m going to start out by just listing their names, but [...]

OK, ladies. I’m pretty sure most of us girls have at least one or two – or a whole gaggle - of gay friends, right? (If you don’t, your missing out – just sayin’.) And I think most women (straight or bi, anyway) kinda feel like, hey, I can relate to gay guys, and we have [...]

“Closets are for clothes, not people!”
I just want to take a moment and say to everyone that has come out as gay, lesbian, bi, transexual – GOOD FOR YOU! I am so proud of the friends I have that have come out. It’s not easy sometimes. But it’s just gotta feel so good to finally [...]

Girls RULE! And to be more specific, Girl Gamers RULE! I love to see smart women (in any industry) succeed. And it looks like Porn Stars Alana Evans and Misti Dawn are poised to do just that with their new and awesome (in my opinion) concept, PwnedbyGirls.com. It’s not the first time that the Gaming and [...]

OK, so I have much to say on this subject, but as it turns out someone else pretty much said everything I wanted to say - and probably in a much more hilarious way. I don’t normally just give you a link to another article without weighing in on it too, but I swear she really did say it all [...]

Yep. Well, not really, but that’s what my daughter said the other day, in a sing-song-y voice while swimming in our pool, talking to herself – or so she thought. Despite my shock and desire to say “what the hell?!” (I have my own story about this phrase….) I told her to swim over to me – rather [...]

If you were a teen in the 1980’s, you were around when the word gay was re-purposed. It went from meaning ”happy” to meaning, well, basically - ”lame”. It was used particularly heavily by valley girls, and in Southern California in general, and spread like wildfire across the country. Simultaneously, it also came to be known as the term for someone who [...]

So, I was just looking at my traffic statistics (general data about the kind of folks who visit this site), and I noticed a really cool thing. Although the majority of my traffic is from the “West” (US, Canada, Europe, Australia), there are several other countries represented. I love this, because to me it’s a reminder [...]

Or perhaps all of the above. Yep. I feel like every other day I find out a friend or acquaintance is having a first-hand experience with one, two or even all three of these. What the HELL?! Maybe it’s my *ahem* age-bracket. I guess when you reach your 30’s and 40’s the probabilities of divorce [...]

This last Sunday I walked in my very first AIDS Walk! It’s one of those things that I have said for years I wanted to do, and just never actually “walked the walk”, so to speak! I am so glad I did because not only did I have a fantastic time, but there is nothing [...]