OK, so yesterday I went on a rant about how women disregard and disrespect other women when they knowingly have sexual relations with a married man. Women need to change this in themselves, because obviously society seems to care less about the woman who contributed to a married man’s infidelity, and they put the entire [...]

I’ve been stewing about this for a while and decided to vent. Now before I go on my rant, I want to say that I think what Tiger Woods did was wrong, selfish, unacceptable, and dispicable. He cheated on his wife and family repeatedly and with no regard for how it would affect others. He [...]

I know, it sounds lame – especially if you ARE single. You are probably saying, yeah – you go love YOURSELF, beeyotch! But sometimes something cliche can still be good. When was the last time you pampered yourself? When was the last time you devoted a whole day – even a whole hour - to indulging [...]

I recently came across a fantastic interview on Salon.com with Jessica Valenti, author of The Purity Myth: How America’s Obsession with Virginity Is Hurting Young Women.  Particularly for young women – and anyone with a daughter, this interview is worth the read, but it’s actually stuff that boys/men need to know too. Often I have complained [...]

So, I recently read about this couple Jessica and Ryan Cassaday – a husband and wife team who are “experts” about relationships and sex, and co-authors of the book “Stop Wondering If You’ll Ever Meet Him: A Revolutionary Approach for Putting the Date Back into Dating” As I am always interested in these types of subjects, [...]

Yes, that’s what I said – you can learn from porn (and when I say “you”, I’m refering to those of you out there who are heterosexual women – or at the very least, someone who likes or wants to like sex with a man.) And the porn I’m talking about isn’t an adult “instructional” video (although [...]

It’s hard to believe O4her is one year old! I hope you all have enjoyed reading my posts over the past 12 months, and I hope you’ll be with me for another 12 (and another, and another….) In celebration, I thought I’d share my interpretation of “The Meaning of O”. The more I thought about it, [...]

Apparently I’m a little behind the times, because this has been the subject of discussion on several blogs, message boards, etc. over the last month or so. I debated on whether to even post about this or not because honestly I have very mixed feelings. But I guess that’s kinda what blogs are for, so I [...]

OK, so I’m pretty liberal when it comes to females being viewed as sexual beings (notice I did NOT say sexual OBJECTS.)  There are many contexts where I think it is perfectly acceptable to see women as being sexual (porn, in particular cuz let’s face it – that’s what it’s all about!)  Strippers fall into [...]

So, I consider myself to be pretty liberal when it comes to being attracted to different types of guys. I have enjoyed being intimate with a rainbow of men; of various cultures, colors, ages, backgrounds and the like. On a strictly physical standpoint, I think there are examples of good looking guys in [...]